Adoption

So Leigh and I are heading to an adoption meeting tomorrow night. This will be our second round in the adoption realm; we also looked at it when we were struggling the first time but opted to go the medical route. That didn't work and I came away from the entire experience with an even more jaded view of the medical establishment than I already had- which is saying something. We took a breather after that and are going to take another look. One of the most difficult things about the decision to adopt, at least for us, is being open and honest about all the things that you give up when you have kids. That is, you have to be honest about being selfish.